Reflections on the Climb
Samedi 27th Apr
I had hoped to update sooner with tales of triumph, but alas, working students are often slammed at this time of year. I've spent the better part of the last week finishing up my grading. I wanted to take this moment to reflect on my experience, to share it with everyone rooting for me, and to express gratitude to my donors.
Climbing the CN Tower is more complicated than everyone thinks. Firstly, you rush to sign in at the Convention Centre which is truly mobbed (I understand why some people do advance sign-in!). I was lucky to be able to leave my coat and purse with my Mom and my roommate Rachel who got sunrise tickets to see me at the top. Otherwise, you have yet another crazy lineup to leave you personal effects. So by the time I took Mom and Rachel to get their tickets (this must be done before 8:30), and went through the Convention Centre to check in, and then back to the CN Tower, I had already done nearly 5000 steps. I was a bit concerned how that would affect my climb, since I had already expended a deal of energy. I sat on a bench and drank lots of water before heading in to the climb. This was an additional challenge I was glad I had looked up on the website earlier in the week and was not surprised for: they do not let you take anything on the climb, including a water bottle. I take a water bottle with me everywhere I go, even just down the street to the store. It is one of my strategies for mitigating my CFS symptoms. So many times, I have been saved by sitting somewhere and drinking water. I had to do my climb without it.
Those lovely volunteers were still really enthusiastic, despite being there since 6:00a.m. cheering people on. I got to tower around my 9:30 start time, scanning in circa 9:35. You have a few stairs before you reach your starting point. They log you into the system, and then they log you out at the top.
The CN Tower climb is a great equalizer. Whether you are short or tall, young or old, thin or not, fit or not, it is hard for everyone. I tend to take stairs at a run, or at least with quite a bounce in my step, so I concentrated really hard in those initial floors: NO RUNNING. People ran past me, and were shortly out of breath and having a hard time. I remembered my pace from the elliptical, which is really not exciting, but I knew it was sustainable. This is the first, and probably only time in my life, I was on equal footing with fit people, athletic types. This is a trial of endurance, and moderation.
It was still unreal to me, even when I finished. Because around floor 10, you are already tired. Everyone is tired. "I'm tired already," I thought. "How do I climb 134 more floors?" I still don't really know how I did it. It is so daunting and seemingly impossible, yet people do it every year. So I will share my winning strategies.
Firstly, I had told everyone I was taking frequent rests. I stuck to that. I stopped every 10 floors for a rest in the first half of the climb. At some point in the second half, I ended up switching to every 5 floors. I had made that bargain with myself sometime around floor 40 or 50: you might need to slow down later, but now, try to keep pace at 10 floors. This worked incredibly well. It was interesting to see that while you were getting more competent in some ways, from finding your rhythm and becoming accustomed to the stairs, by the time you were in those final flights, you were also more tired, so more rest was needful. Another thing I decided early, something initially I thought was not possible, is that I would sit down. I didn't see how sitting in the stairs would be feasible, given that you would be blocking people's way. But once I gave myself permission to do this, it was a game changer. I tried sitting with my legs crossed, but immediately at that initial stop on floor 40 or so, my legs said: "NO! OW! UNFOLD ME RIGHT NOW!" So I stretch my legs straight out in front of me on the platform and made sure there was room for other people to go by me. My legs were happy, and my energy recuperated really well. This is the cornerstone of life with CFS: almost any symptom can be relieved by lying down. This is the closest I was going to be to lying down in the CN Tower climb. I would just sit there to the point of even losing track of time a little, and then get up and keep going. I did this three times on my climb: circa floors 40, 90 and 120. I am convinced this was one of the key factors in my ability to complete the challenge.
Secondly, your mental state is the most important part of the climb. As my Mom said when she heard me describe how I did it at the CN Tower observation deck: this challenge is more mental than physical. Agreed! I just kept focusing on: put one foot in front of the other. One floor at a time. This is how you live your live with CFS: one day at a time. Sometimes one hour at a time. This was a crucial advantage for me, since I practice this daily. Take the breaks; feel good about taking the breaks. I told myself, and many people I passed: Slow and steady wins the race! Unlike my climbs in other places, where tourists don't really talk to one another, the CN Tower climb is full of people cheering you on. From the people with pompoms at the base, to every climber who knows your struggle in the stairs, everyone was so kind and encouraging. When I would take stops to sit, people would ask if I was doing okay and tell me I was doing well. Paramedics placed every 15-20 floors did the same. I stopped at floor 50 or so and chatted with a paramedic who helped me pass the time on my break, and gave me a fist pump when I started climbing again. I shared encouragement in my turn, especially to anyone sitting - "You're doing a great job! Rest when you need to!" - and cheered hard for Team Tachycardia. I saw 2-3 of the team with their t-shirts and was so glad to meet someone with the condition I've had since I was 16. I told them, "Yay; I'm not the only one" and "You're awesome!" This galvinizes everyone and helps them take their steps. I ended up in the last third or so of the climb near a group. There was one member of the group who was the cheerleader. He was bouncing with energy and could've had a quicker time, but he kept telling his friends - ones he came with or met on the climb I couldn't tell - "you've got this!" and "one more floor, one more floor!" His energy was infectious, and we chatted on rests. When they were ahead of me, he would shout back, "You've got this, purple shirt!" The second time he did this, the women with him teased him and said, "What's her name?" He called down to ask, and I called back up. After that, he said "You can do this too, Brianna!"
The thing they don't tell you about the CN Tower climb is those extra steps. You take some to get to scan your bracelet at the beginning. When you hit Floor 144, you have a team of volunteers congratulating you, telling you that you are at the finish line. You scan your bracelet, and then they direct you to the "exit." Then you find more stairs. While everyone is reeling, and your body is screaming, "WHAT?!" at you, you have to rally for more. Keeping that positive attitude helps. While internally, I had that visceral "WHAT NOW?!", I said to my new buddies, "Bonus steps!" So you climb one floor, and a second, thinking that this is how you started, so it must just be two floors. You climb a 3rd. You climb to 5. The difficult part is not knowing where it ends. People get discouraged. I'm sure some of them were totally ready to swear. "It's okay, it's okay; we'll finish!" I said. You get to 10 floors, and are still perplexed, but finally you see that it's only floor more. I called down: "It's 11! It's 11 floors. Just one more! I can see the end!"
The website says you are photographed as you get to the top. So on floor 143, I reminded people to smile. I didn't know if that's where the picture was, or once you hit the observation deck. So after climbing the additional floors, I reminded people to smile again. I think that is the moment in my photos of the day I like the most: me walking towards Mom and Rachel with a smile. They were smiling, and Rachel was holding up the best poster I've ever seen. It had flowers and butterflies all around green stairs, and had a Latin inscription. That was a total surprise, because last I checked, Rachel studies Greek and German texts! The text read: "Brianna ad altiora tendit." Mom finally asked, "So what does it mean?" "Brianna reaches for the higher things." It perfectly describes my love of high places. I was so touched.
Since I had the best supporters and poster, the local reporter asked if she could interview me. I was in a bit of shock, just thinking I hoped I could say something intelligent after my effort. It did not end up on the news, but it was a thrilling moment nonetheless. I got water after this, furnished by volunteers. I got a picture with the group I made that last third of the climb with, including those gruelling and unnecessarily cruel extra steps. I asked for another water bottle and went to sit for awhile.
There was some sunshine when I first got to the observation deck, but it disappeared quickly. The mist starting rolling in, and I was disappointed; I had hoped it would not be like that during my climb. We could see it snowing, which was so strange, since it was above 0. Since I finished near the tail end of things, the volunteers packed up not long after I reached the top. I had a quick phone call with Dad and Clara to let them know I made it, and to share part of the experience with them. Then Rachel suggested we head down to not miss out on my t-shirt. I really did want my t-shirt for the climb, but I was torn. The sun was coming back out, and I had only seen the view of the waterfront, not the city. I tried to convince myself a few points during the day that it was not really worth hanging out at the top due to the weather, which was absolutely nuts that day. If I had a do-over of the day, this is the only part I would change: spend some more time basking in the triumph at the top.
We took the elevator down, which was much cooler than I remembered. You go from being at a bird's eye view where even things like planes from the Billy Bishop Island airport are tiny, back to human scale in about 58 seconds. I popped into the Convention Centre which had it back doors now open to receive climbers the short way, and found out that my time was 73 minutes and 52 seconds. I had realised early on that I was not going to make the average 30-45 minute time. While that was a bit disappointing, I let it go very fast. "I'll get there when I get there," I told myself. Finishing was the important thing, not how fast I finished. I was proud of this time, which was written on my t-shirt by a small and clever helper who was there with his Mom at the volunteer table. I was also especially proud of my strong finish, with a smile. Mom and Rachel mentioned that a lot of climbers looked exhausted, sweaty, disheveled, and in shock (which I explained must be due to the extra 11 floors they were not counting on!), but I finished walking slowly with a smile, just as I would have wished.
We all piled back into the subway and headed for Cafe Landwer, a place I had been curious to try and heard great things about. Pretty well as soon as we stepped in the door, it started hailing outside. We were really grateful to be inside and getting brunch. I had French toast with berry compote, whipped cream, and maple syrup, as well as a Belize mimosa. Everything was delicious and it was such a nice way to celebrate my accomplishment. I had had illusions of walking back after that, but I had told myself that I could also take the subway if I was tired. Finally, it seems, I got tired. Rachel and Mom said it was quite legitimate to be tired and take the subway back. It was also legitimate to have a nap, which I did. People asked me if I was really tired, or if my legs hurt afterwards (or the day after), and that was not the case. I've gotten up pretty well every day this week at a usual time and put in a usual day. I'm very pleased with this result too. It is important when you have CFS not to do something that will give you consequences for hours or days afterwards. I did this epic climb, and I did not have consequences. As Rachel said a few weeks ago: wouldn't that be an awesome way to kick your CFS in the face? Yes, yes it would!
My theme song for occasions like this is Van Morrison's song Sitting on Top of the World for the movie Evelyn. I often think of it in my high places, and when I was not totally focused on putting one foot in front of the other, I was thinking of the lyrics: "I've been up, and I've been down, almost level with the ground", "I'm singing my song, sittin' on top of the world, sittin' on top of the world, I'm sittin' on top of the world", "I'm movin' on, up that mountainside" "And I'm makin' my own dreams, Sittin' on top of the world! Yes I am!" These are the moments I feel my resilience of spirit and celebrate it.
Thank you to everyone who has been encouraging me the whole way. I was thinking about you on my climb and when I was sitting at the top of the CN Tower, where I made one of my long-time dreams come true.
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